Trusted and Proved! 7 Important Ways To Keep Your Relationship Strong!

It is not hard to contemplate that a lot of effort is required to make a relationship work and last and anyone who has been a part of one will completely agree. Even though most people agree that they need to add a little special something, most people really do not actually know what that special something is.

There are plenty of things that a couple can do to strengthen their bond in ways unimaginable and all they need is some guidance. The purpose of that is exactly that, providing couples with some extremely important tips that will undoubtedly lead them down a road that depicts nothing but a prosperous and happy future with your current or future partner.

1. Hey honey how are you?
A tip that most couples overlook is calling your partner in the middle of the day to simply say hello. This is a great gesture that lets the other know the you are still thinking about them, regardless of the fact that you just met each other a couple of hours ago. Do not think of this as one of those calls that is making sure that you are actually, where you are supposed to be. One of the biggest problems with people is miscommunication and not understanding the real meaning behind certain behaviors. Therefore, it is vital that couples look at certain things positively and consider them nice gestures. Maybe you can even share a nice little laugh in between the short call, because we all know how important laughter can be for our health and relationship.

2. Communicate
While this may seem like a given, it’s amazing to me how little time the average couples spends communicating. Of course there is the usual chit chat and “how was your day dear?” kind of banter but getting down to the heart of it, real communication means infinitely more. If there is something that has been bothering you or an area of the relationship that is making you unhappy, simply ignoring it isn’t going to do the trick. Its best when the other person in the relationship knows these concerns so that you can work on a solution together and hopefully keep the situation from getting out of hand. Even if things are great in the relationship, spending quality time discussing more in depth topics is a way for you to channel and heighten your emotional intimacy.

3. Make Time For You
Too many times in relationships, couples forget that they need their own space and end up compromising their own interests which of course leads to unhappiness down the road. Of course there is that beginning “honeymoon phase” in any relationship where it seems that nothing else matters except for the other person but…hate to be the bearer of bad news…that part fades. But like everything else in life, change isn’t always a bad thing. Relationships transition and once they do, you will find yourself missing the friends, hobbies and other activities that you may have momentarily cast aside. Rediscover these interests and a little space will not only improve your relationship but also allow you to enjoy the things that make you who you are!

4. Complement One Another
It doesn’t matter if you have been together 10 weeks or 10 years, complements don’t get old. It’s all too easy to get drawn into that lull of “comfort” (which is a great place to be) but since you are not only best friends but lovers too, it’s important to take the time to make each other feel special. While many of us are quick to point out flaws, we aren’t as quick to dish out complements. Take time to tell you partner you appreciate them and help boost their strengths. Everyone enjoys feeling like they have been recognized for all the good they have done, whether this means making a wonderful romantic dinner or spending 30 extra minutes to get ready to go somewhere.

5. Get Somewhere Together
There is something magical about vacation. As kids we play in the sand, frolic in the waves and go to bed exhausted and happy. It’s important to take time out from the stress of work or of raising a family and to reconnect in a new and exciting place. No matter what your budget, set money aside for a weekend getaway every now and then.

If a relationship consists of “all work and no play,” it’s one that will have a relatively short shelf life. Yes, we are creatures of habit but this doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy a break from the routine ever now and again!

6. Compromise
At last, the one thing that seems so simple but really is hard to master is the art of compromise. Nothing is harder than really believing you are right and having to give up at least part of your battle for the sake of the relationship. There is of course a time to stand up for what you believe in and accept no less than you deserve, but when it comes to maintaining a harmonious relationship, a little bit of compromise can go a long way.

7. A little compliment goes a long way
And lastly, don’t be afraid to complement one another. People just don’t understand how much even a silly little compliment can boost the morale of an individual. For example, tell your man how great his handyman skills are, even if they aren’t, but make sure that you sound serious enough so that he doesn’t think that you are ridiculing him.

Trust me, if you can make your man believe that he is unmatchable in handling that hammer or screwdriver he will not only always be willing to fix things around the house, but might actually turn into a real good handyman. These are three simple tips that most people don’t pay attention to, but can make all the difference in strengthening a relationship.

7 Signs To Know If Your Partner Truly Loves You.. Must Read!

One question that often rings in your head is "Does s/he truly love me?" Most times, you just can't find an answer to that question and even when you speak to friends about it, they don't come up with something concrete. Here, I've put together, 7 signs that can help you know if your partner truly loves you.

I call them "hard-to-miss" signs because someone who really loves you does them without even knowing - love compels them. Read below..

1. Wants To Spend Time With You:
When someone truly loves you, s/he will do everything they can to spend time with you irrespective of their schedule. Both of you might be occupied due to family, work, or other relevant commitments but someone who truly cares about you will always squeeze out time because they simply can't do without you.

2. 'We' Automatically Replaces 'I':
Someone who loves you includes you in everything s/he does. He plans for both of you which makes them fond of using the word "we" instead of "i". Another word they'll start using is "us". It simply means your lover sees you as part of his/her life.

3. Fighting And Apologizing:
The truth is, you can never know how strong a relationship is until you both have a good fight. Someone who loves you isn't afraid to fight and s/he says "sorry" whenever s/he wrongs you - putting pride aside. No matter who your partner might be outside, no matter his/her status at work, they set pride aside when they're with you.

4. Respects Your Views:
Whenever you speak to your partner, s/he will listen. Someone who loves you will always listen to you no matter how senseless what you're saying might be. S/he listens calmly and corrects you boldly when s/he feels you're wrong.

5. Asks About Your Day:
This is a very obvious way of knowing if your partner truly cares about you. When you guys are together, does your partner ask how you spent your day? Does s/he tries to find out what happened at work? Even if you're not together, such interests keeps communication routes open.

6. Showing Affection:
You don't necessarily need to engage in frequent s*x to be emotionally intimate. However, showing some sign of physical attraction and closeness bonds the both of you. Example, resting your head on her shoulder, frequent hugging or holding hands while walking suggests that your partner feels some vital connection in you.

7. Admires You:

Someone who loves you is quick to admire you. They don't hesitate telling you how good you look and they always thank God for blessing them with you. Someone who hardly notices your new hair-do or shirt cares less about you.

Now that you've finished reading this, share it on your social networks to enlighten your friends too. They will thank you for doing so.

How To Approach A Woman In Public And Win Her Heart

How to approach a girl in public

We have been receiving emails from guys asking how they can boldly approach a girl in public. Some men are naturally shy while some don't even know how to start. The thing is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot easier than when she's alone.

Here, we have put this down to help you be a man, Lol. Read carefully to the end.

1. Make Eye Contact:
If you see someone you'd like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact.

If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she's interested.

Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain's reward center, the ventral striatum. What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause for celebration!

Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you're interested in them. If she returns the smile, that's a good sign that she might be interested.

Once you've exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language. This will give you a better idea if she's actually interested.


2. Check Body Language:
While reading another person's body language, male or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look for that will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in conversation. Respect the girl's right to be left alone.

Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body language like this probably means leave her alone.

Body language is not everything. Women are taught from childhood that they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are going to approach her, pay attention to how she reacts and what she says.


3. Break The Ice:
Start with a simple ice-breaker. Perhaps you are reading the same book, or you noticed she was wearing a shirt that has a band you like. Perhaps the bus is late and you can commiserate with her.

If she doesn't seem interested in talking, leave her alone. There are numerous ways to tell: not making eye contact, monosyllabic answers, looking around for some way out of the conversation.

If she is interested she will make that clear: eye contact, smiling, sometimes leaning closer.

Once you've approached and established that she's interested, proceed to having a conversation.


4. Strike A Conversation:
This might flow naturally out of your ice-breaker comment, but if not there are several ways to have a conversation.

Ask her if she made her earrings/dress/other cool item. You could even say something like "I couldn't help but noticing how your dress matches your eyes. It's a great color." It lets her know that you think she's attractive without dwelling on her looks. Like anyone else, girls like to be appreciated for more than just their appearance.

If you're in a place like a bookstore or comic book store, ask her what her favorite book is.

Be sure to listen when she speaks. You'll find out more about her, have opportunities to further the conversation, and show her that you are interested in her as a person.

5. Make Plans To Meet Again:
If she seems interested and you are still interested, try and make plans for a future meet-up.

Give her your phone number or email address. This way she feels in control of the situation. You'll know for certain that she's interested if she follows up.

Ask for her phone number or email address. If she says no, leave it. She doesn't owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your company.

Ask her on an instant date. Ask her if she wants to grab coffee somewhere. Always choose a public place for an instant date; you want her to feel comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask, or ask her if she knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of the situation.

6. Be Respectful:
This is the absolute most important part of approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not interested back off.

Remember, different girls have different tastes in guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that you're not her type. However, there might be another girl out there who will think you're awesome.

Now that you've finished reading this, feel free to share on your social networks. Your friends will thank you for sharing this piece of info with them. Any questions? Ask below using the comment box. Goodluck guys!

TIPS: 11 Things You Should Avoid After Breaking Up

No one steps into a relationship with an intention of breaking up but sometimes, it occurs and you have to deal with it. Now what matters is how you deal with it. The things you do after breaking up determines how fast you heal. Most importantly, you don't have to break down because you broke up so here are 11 things you should not do after breakup.

1. Don't Listen To Sad Songs:
Break up songs and their lyrics don’t mean too much to us until we’re going through breakup. If you really want to heal and move on, avoid listening to sad break up songs. Have a good cry, be angry, but listen to something more inspiring and uplifting instead of sad songs.

2. Don't Hurry Into A New Relationship:
After breaking up with your ex, a big part of you is going to miss the companionship you once had.   However, the worst thing you can do after breaking off a relationship is getting into a new one.  This doesn’t give you time to heal or time to regroup and figure yourself out.

3. Trying To Maintain A Friendship:
Trying to maintain a friendship after a fresh break up is never a good idea. It puts all sorts of stress on both of you as you try to somehow remain friends. Work on being friends later on down the line, but right now, focus on healing and focus on yourself.4. Hiding true emotions
After breaking up with a man, you’re bound to feel a rush of emotions. From sadness to anger, confusion and frustration, being emotional after a break up is okay. Emotions only become problematic when you don’t admit them.  Admit and acknowledge your emotions, and release them. There’s no need to fake a smile when you are not happy.

5. Throwing Everything Away:
 If you were with your ex-boyfriend for a good amount of time, it’s likely that he’s bought you some pretty nice gifts. Though you may want to throw away all of these in the heat of the moment, restrain yourself from doing so.

6. Stalking Your Ex:
 Breaking up usually means cutting all contact, which can be really hard to do — and may cause you to go into stalker mode, where you look at your ex’s Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram daily to see what he’s up to and to keep an eye on any new women that he may be talking to. This will only cause you tension and heartache.

7. Destroying Stuff:
 Some break ups aren’t nice ones, to say the least, and many times when a break up isn’t mutual, one partner is angry. If you’re breaking up because of cheating or some other reason, you may feel inclined to ruin your ex’s clothing and other personal items. Though it’s a good way to vent your   frustration, don’t give in to the temptation.

8. Don't Seek Revenge:
Seeking revenge on your ex posting personal pictures all over the Internet will only make you angrier and even more frustrated.  Let your vengeance be in the fact that by breaking up with you, he lost a great partner.

9. Begging to be taken back
When you really love and care about someone, it can be hard to let them go, and this may lead you to think that you can somehow reconcile and make things okay again. After breaking up, don’t beg your partner to take you back.  Accept it for what it is and move on; otherwise you will face more rejection.

10. Staying In Touch:
Once a break up decision is made, there is no need for both of you to communicate at all. Don’t text your partner later that night asking how they are feeling and don’t call the next day asking when you will see them again. Staying in contact only makes healing and moving on harder to realize.

11. Don't Isolate Yourself:
One of the worst things you can do after breaking up with someone is to isolate yourself. This is a point in your life when you need as much support and love as you can get. Don’t separate yourself from friends and family.

French kiss! Popular Gospel Singer Don Moen & his Wife Celebrate 41 Years of Marriage in Paris! *PHOTO*

 

Don Moen shared a picture of him kissing his lovely wife Lara Lee Szuchna on his Facebook page with the caption;

“A beautiful night in Paris with Laura! Celebrating 41 years of marriage!"

For those who don't know, the couple divorced for 11 years before remarrying last year... Congrats to them.

Why I am enjoying my marriage —Foluke Daramola Reveal

Foluke was accused of snatching Kayode Salako from his first wife..But according to Vanguard she gushed about her marriage of 1 year 4 months. saying

“I would say that the reason I am enjoying my marriage is because I married my friend. I did not jump into marriage for the sake of getting married. I took time to study the kind of man I wanted to get married to. It is all about friendship. If you marry your friend, you are bound to enjoy your marriage,

Top 8 Signs To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating On You

There are quite a handful of ways to know if your spouse/partner is cheating on you but here, I'll discuss just eight (8) of them and note, I'm writing this from experience because when I cheated on my partner, I did most of them. Be patient and read through, you'll learn something.

1. "I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You."
Once you hear these words, a big warning bell should sound in your head. This is one of the most common things a cheating spouse will say. Your spouse may have a deep, loving bond with you but, intense feelings of passion can override the bond with you and cause your spouse to lose sight of his/her true feelings. A cheating spouse will develop what I call hormone - induced amnesia. The surging hormones and passion they feel in their new relationship can screw the way they think.

2. "We are just friends."
This is one sure statement that will come from a cheating partner. If your partner is spending more and more time with this new "friend," then there is obviously more to it than a mere friendship. Your partner may feel they have a lot in common with this person, that this person understands them and things they are going through not knowing such feelings will only push them away from you. Whatever the reasons for the friendship, it's a big warning sign and one you should take seriously.

3. A sudden need for privacy.
If things the two of you used to share openly suddenly become private pay attention cause something is probably up. When he/she starts to protect their cell phones or computer, my dear, you have to sit-up and be at alert because something fishy is going on. If you ask why or attempt to find out information that used to be common knowledge between the two of you, you will be accused of snooping or trying to control your spouse. Very big warning sign!

4. "I need some space to figure out my feelings."
Men and women who are involved with someone else will request more space, time alone or away from the family. They may say it is due to confusion over their feelings or stress at work. This can be a sign that there is someone else and the spouse is trying to figure out ways to have more freedom.

5. Regular work habits change.
Working late, going to work at odd hours or, putting in more time than is normal on work related issues can be a sign that your partner is giving more time to something else and hides it under the word "Work." Be vigilant when you notice things like this.

6. Secretive phone calls and more time spent on the phone.
Emotional affairs  occur primarily via the phone, especially cell phones. If you find your spouse hanging up suddenly when you enter the room or erasing the history on the cell phone and becoming defensive when asked about it, then you might want to check your phone records.

7. Behavior that just doesn't add up.
Not being where he/she was expected to be. Missing time they can't explain. Money that isn't accounted for. Receipts for things you don't have. Missing clothing. Clothing that does not belong to your family. Being caught in little lies about the details of the day. If something is off with their behavior, you should suspect cheating .

8. Your Own fears and suspicions
If you find yourself looking for excuses for your spouse's behavior or trying to convince yourself that they would never cheat then that is a warning sign. Your intuition is frequently one of the best indicators that something is wrong. If you suspect your spouse might be cheating on you, do some investigating and then talk to him/her about what you've found. Do it in a way that is calm and courteous. Ask for honesty. Be prepared for lies, it's a natural thing they must lie but it doesn't mean the love isn't there. Sometimes they lie out of respect. Be calm and friendly, they will open up. It is a sad fact that people having affairs become excellent liars. People who never told a lie before in their lives. Trust your gut instinct but get hard, cold proof also.

Now that you've finished reading this, I'm sure you've learnt a great deal and would love your friends to see this too. Simply share this article on your social media and they'll thank you for sharing this secret with them.

Feel free to drop your comments below or ask questions